Last weekend, my best friend Xiaomei came to my house for tea. As soon as she entered, she sighed and said that she had been stuck at work recently, her love life wasn’t going well, and she felt very "dry" overall. I jokingly asked her if she lacked the water element in her five elements. Unexpectedly, she actually went to have her fortune told, and the result showed she truly lacked water and was also a bit deficient in fire! This reminded me of a similar issue I had a few years ago, which I gradually resolved with the help of five-element crystals. Today, I’ll share my real experience with you, just like chatting with a best friend—no secrets and no exaggeration.

From Skepticism to Experimentation: My First Experience with Five-Element Crystals

To be honest, I was initially skeptical about feng shui crystals, always feeling they were a bit mysterious. But during that time, I had just changed jobs, was under a lot of pressure, had trouble sleeping, and my skin was particularly dry. A traditional Chinese medicine practitioner said my constitution was prone to dryness and heat, and a friend jokingly said I had "too much fire but not enough water." Later, on the recommendation of a seasoned feng shui enthusiast, I tried using five-element crystals to balance myself.

I chose two crystals: obsidian (belonging to water, to supplement water) and red agate (belonging to fire, to supplement fire). Obsidian is deep black and has a calming energy, while red agate is bright red and looks very warm. I placed them on my bedside table and looked at them for a few moments every night before bed, silently repeating positive intentions, such as "I hope to feel more emotionally balanced" or "I want to boost my vitality."

The process was simple, with no complicated rituals. I found that just looking at these crystals slowly calmed my mood, as if I was truly "supplementing water." My dry skin issue also improved somewhat, along with drinking more water. As for the red agate, I wore it as a bracelet on my wrist and felt more motivated to get things done. But honestly, the effects weren’t immediate—they took time to accumulate.

Real Feelings: Minor Drawbacks and Surprises

After using them for a few months, my biggest takeaway was that my emotions became more stable. I used to get easily agitated, but now I can calm down faster. This might be related to the "water" energy of obsidian, as water in the five elements represents flow and softness. Red agate, on the other hand, gave me more drive, but the downside was—sometimes I became too impulsive and almost argued with colleagues! So later, I adjusted the times I wore it, only putting it on when I needed to focus on work.

Another minor drawback is that crystals need regular cleansing. I rinse them under running water about once a week, or else I feel their energy becomes muddy. This is a bit troublesome for a lazy person like me, but for the sake of the effects, I’ve stuck with it.

Specific Usage Suggestions: How to Naturally Integrate Them into Your Life

If you also want to try five-element crystals, here are my suggestions:
1. Identify Your Needs First: It’s best to consult a professional or research the five elements yourself. Don’t blindly follow trends. For example, my best friend lacks water and fire, so obsidian and red agate are suitable for her.
2. Choose the Right Location: If you lack water, you can place crystals in the north (the water direction) of your bedroom or office. If you lack fire, place them in the south (the fire direction). I placed mine by the bedside to help me relax before sleep.
3. Combine with Daily Habits: Crystals aren’t magic; they work better when paired with a healthy lifestyle. I drank more water and practiced meditation, which made the effects more noticeable.
4. Regular Cleansing: Simply rinse them under running water or leave them under moonlight to keep their energy fresh.

Conclusion: Sharing Like a Friend

Overall, five-element crystals are more like a psychological aid for me, helping me adjust my state. They won’t change your fate instantly, but they can bring positive energy. If you’re also looking for a natural way to balance your life, why not start with one or two crystals and slowly feel their effects? Remember, feng shui is meant to make life better, so don’t put too much pressure on yourself!